If the hardships are a result of breaking a commandment, then it's probably a warning. But if they are out of your control, they may be there to help you grow. I would pray and ask Heavenly Father if there is something you need to change or learn from this experience, and if so, ask Him to let you know what it is. Pray for strength and comfort. And be patient; the answer may be on its way.
Michaela P., 17, Idaho, USA
Responses are intended for help and perspective, not as official pronouncements of Church doctrine.